Although I am not updating this blog regularly for now, I am frequently asked about good books about adoption, so I thought I would leave this post up as the main page.
This page lists the books and films I have read or viewed that have informed or influenced me in some way. These books range from academic to popular press and are heavily biased towards the adoptee perspective. What you will not find here (for the most part) are adoptive parent memoirs or "how to adopt" books. If adoptive parents have authored some of these books listed here, then I have found something more substantive in their pages that go beyond their personal "adoption journey."
If you are an adoptee and are looking for resources for your own journey, these books and films could be a good place to begin. I don't agree with all of the positions and opinions expressed in these books, but I do think they all have given me a lot of fodder for further exploration.
New books come out all the time, so I will be adding to this page as I read books. Again, I have read the majority of these are books but not all, and this list certainly does not encompass the very large selection of books on adoption.
Please contact me at harlowmonkey at gmail dot com if you have suggestions for other resources.
Adoption - General
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A Sealed & Secret Kinship: Policies & Practices in American Adoption by Judith Schachter Modell
Adoption in America: Historical Perspectives edited by E. Wayne Carp-
Adoption Nation: How the Adoption Revolution Is Transforming America by Adam Pertman
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Family Matters: Secrecy and Disclosure in the History of Adoption by E. Wayne Carp
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Kinship by Design: A History of Adoption in the Modern United States by Ellen Herman
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Like Our Very Own: Adoption and the Changing Culture of Motherhood, 1851-1950 by Julie Berebitsky
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Strangers and Kin: The American Way of Adoption by Barbara Melosh
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Twenty Things Adopted Kids Wish Their Adoptive Parents Knew by Sherrie Eldridge
Adoption Books - Transracial and Transnational
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Adoptive Families in a Diverse Society edited by Katarina Wegar
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Babies Without Borders: Adoption and Migration across the Americas by Karen Dubinsky
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Birth Is More Than Once: The Inner World of Adopted Korean Children by Hei Sook Wilkinson
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Birthmarks: Transracial Adoption in Contemporary America by Sandra Patton
- Children of the Storm: Black Children and American Child Welfare by Andrew Billingsley
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Somebody's Children: The Politics of Transracial and Transnational Children by Laura Briggs
The Ethics of Transracial Adoption by Hawley Fogg-Davis
West Meets East: Americans Adopt Chinese Children by Richard Tessler
Understanding Adoption and Foster Care Issues
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Ambiguous Loss: Learning to Live with Unresolved Grief by Pauline Boss
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Being Adopted: The Lifelong Search for Self by David M. Brodzinsky
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Beneath the Mask: Understanding Adopted Teens by Debbie Riley
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Coming Home to Self: The Adopted Child Grows Up by Nancy Newton Verrier
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Helping Children Cope with Separation and Loss by Claudia Jewett Jarratt
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Journey Of The Adopted Self: A Quest For Wholeness by Betty Jean Lifton
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Lost and Found: The Adoption Experience by Betty Jean Lifton
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Our Own: Adopting and Parenting the Older Child by Trish Maskew
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Shared Fate: A Theory and Method of Adoptive Relationships by H. David Kirk
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The Primal Wound: Understanding the Adopted Child by Nancy Verrier
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The Road to Evergreen: Adoption, Attachment Therapy, and the Promise of Family by Rachael Stryker
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Twenty Things Adopted Kids Wish Their Adoptive Parents Knew by Sherrie Eldridge
Adoptee and Foster Care Memoirs
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Blending In: Crisscrossing the Lines of Race, Religion, Family, and Adoption by Barbara Ann Gowan
Daughter of the Ganges: A Memoir by Asha Miro
Even Tough Girls Wear Tutus: Inside the World of a Woman Born in Prison - Deborah Jiang Stein
- From Morning Calm to Midnight Sun by Sunny Jo
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Fugitive Visions: An Adoptee's Return to Korea by Jane Jeong Trenka
Here: A Visual History of Adopted Koreans in Minnesota by Kim Jackson and Heewon Lee
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In Search of Belonging: Reflections by Transracially Adopted People Edited by Perlita Harris
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Oceans Apart: A Voyage of International Adoption by Mary Mustard Reed
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Secret Daughter: A Mixed-Race Daughter and the Mother Who Gave Her Away by June Cross
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Seeds from a Silent Tree: An Anthology By Korean Adoptees
Songs of My Families: A Thirty-Seven-Year Odyssey from Korea to America and Back by Kelly Fern
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The Book of Sarahs: A Family in Parts by Catherine E. McKinley
- The Unforgotten War: Dust of the Streets by Thomas Park Clement
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Trail of Crumbs: Hunger, Love, and the Search for Home by Kim Sunee
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Twins Found in a Box: Adapting to Adoption by Jeannine Vance
Adoptee Anthologies
Search and Reunion
Understanding Birth Parent Perspectives
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Dreaming a World: Korean Birth Mothers Tell Their Stories edited by Sangsoon Han
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Following the Tambourine Man: A Birthmother's Memoir by Janet Mason Ellerby
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Shattered Bonds: The Color of Child Welfare by Dorothy Roberts
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Surrendered Child: A Birth Mother's Journey by Karen Salyer McElmurray
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Waiting to Forget: A Motherhood Lost and Found by Margaret Moorman
Raising Children of Color
Children's Books
Documentary Films
- Adopt Me, Michael Jordan
- Adopted
- Approved for Adoption
- Calcutta Calling
- China's Lost Girls
- Crossing Chasms
- Daughter From Danang
- First Person Plural
- Found in China
- In the Matter of Cha Jung Hee
- Las Hijas
- Long Wait for Home
- Made In Korea: A One-way-ticket Seoul-Amsterdam
- Off and Running
- Operation Babylift
- Outside Looking In: Transracial Adoption in America
- Passing Through
- PRECIOUS CARGO
- Resilience
- Struggle For Identity
- The Triumvirate
Other books by TRAs
- Bryan Thao Worra: On The Other Side of the Eye
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Jennifer Kwon Dobbs: Paper Pavilion (White Pine Press Poetry Prize)
Thank you for this incredible list of resources!!
Posted by: Paula O. | March 28, 2010 at 08:31 PM
This is incredible. Thank you so much for taking the time to put this together.
Posted by: Faith | March 28, 2010 at 10:02 PM
Thanks so much.
Posted by: Jeremy Hulley | March 29, 2010 at 11:21 AM
you might want to include this bbc documentary:
Finding Leticia
Category: Documentaries
A young orphan discovers that her natural father is still alive in El Salvador and that she was the victim of a U.S.-backed program in which thousands of children were abducted to prevent left-wing activism.
Posted by: Andrea | March 29, 2010 at 11:28 AM
Very helpful. Thank you!
Posted by: yoonsblur | March 29, 2010 at 02:13 PM
Andrea, do you have a link for Finding Leticia? I did a search engine search and couldn't find it.
Posted by: Jae Ran | March 29, 2010 at 05:02 PM
Great list. Can I add one more film:
Secrets and Lies: a great 1996 film by Mike Leigh. Deatiols at-
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Secrets_&_Lies_%28film%29
Posted by: Brick | March 31, 2010 at 04:44 AM
Just wanted to let you know I've linked to this post on my blog post (publishing tomorrow)! :) Thanks for the awesome resources.
Posted by: Socialwrkr24/7 | April 02, 2010 at 12:31 AM
And this great list is one of many reasons I give you a special nod in both my books. :) Thanks as always. :)
Posted by: Bryan | April 02, 2010 at 12:38 AM
Thanks Bryan and 24/7!
Bryan, let me know if you have a good link for your books -
Brick, thanks for your suggestion. There are lots of awesome movies about adoption, my list is limited to documentaries.
JR
Posted by: Jae Ran | April 02, 2010 at 06:47 PM
Here's another book you might want to add:
Babies without Borders: Adoption and Migration across the Americas
There have been several recent interviews with the author, who brings a very rational wide-angle view to the subject of international adoption.
Posted by: kantmakm | April 06, 2010 at 03:45 PM
This is such a great list - thanks!
I don't think I see it on the list, so in case you've never discovered it, I really like "The Adoption Papers" by Jackie Kay. She is a Scottish poet and playwright, and this is an autobiographical piece. She is black and was adopted by two white Scottish parents, and tells her story through the perspective of child/adoptive mother/birthmother. It is beautifully written, unsentimental and very poignant.
I also really liked Regina Louise's memoir Somebody's Someone - about growing up in the fostercare system and her decision to be adopted as an adult.
While not a documentary, I also thought the movie Lovely and Amazing was an honest portrayal of some of the issues of transracial adoption.
Looking forward to watching the films you've listed here.
Posted by: Kristen Howerton | April 07, 2010 at 02:02 AM
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/programmes/correspondent/992119.stm
is a description of Finding Leticia but I can't find a distributor for the BBC film.
Another documentary is PBS' Discovering Dominga, about a survivor of the Rio Negro massacre in Guatemala who was adopted as an older child to the U.S. This documentary is interesting because of the interplay between U.S. role in the war, Dominga/Denese's very shattered memories of her childhood and her struggle with her identity as a Maya/Guatemalan/American. It's a really, really complicated and heartrending story. I just screened it in a migration lit. class for my students and they thought it was one of the saddest things they'd seen (and they've seen a lot of documentaries about massacres).
http://www.pbs.org/pov/discoveringdominga/
Posted by: andrea | March 24, 2011 at 01:09 PM
interested to know what you think about the Dubinsky book (Babies w/o borders)...I found it really problematic, in the same way that the film _Goodbye Baby_ (Pat Goudvis) was. Weaknesses with both are the author/director's 1) poor Spanish skills, which IMO keeps them from understanding what their interviewees are telling them 2) very naive grasp of Guatemalan politics (for example, neither understand how DNA tests were falsified for Guatemalan adoptions) and 3) unquestioned ideology. The Dubinsky book repeats ad nauseum the caveat that her son's adoption wasn't affected by corruption and both the book and the film stop short of really examining the power/$ differential between North and South that made the adoption of their children possible.
Posted by: andrea | May 11, 2011 at 05:12 PM
What a great post with great info. Thanks for taking the time to build this out.
http://www.adoptioniguide.com
Posted by: Chazelban.blogspot.com | December 09, 2011 at 10:12 PM